When you are in a relationship, thinking about yourself all the time becomes a thing of the past. You make sacrifices and agreements which work with you and your partner, all of which have to be fair to both sides.
I have always found in relationships I’m always the one with the lower sex drive, which at times can take its toll on my partner which in turn has led to several arguments which were unnecessary. This has happened several times for me now, that’s when I came up with the 3-day rule. This ensures my partner that I will not leave him waiting longer than 3 days for sex and it also gives me 2 days where I know if I’m not feeling in the mood I won’t have him pestering for sex. In the first 2 days, he has to leave me to go to him if I want it and on the third day that is when he is able to approach me knowing at some point he will get it that day. The only time this rule doesn’t count is when I’m not feeling well and he knows that when I have sex when I’m unwell it will only make me feel worse. Even then I will always offer to help him out and get his release if he really feels he needs it.
This is something that works amazingly for my relationship. It has reduced any arguments we have. I feel like being like this makes things less stressful for me as I know my sex drive isn’t as high as my partners and it gets to the point where I do feel bad but with this rule, it makes it fair for us both and I don’t feel like I had to do it, I’m more willing as there have been no arguments and I’ve not been asked for days.
Would you think of ever doing anything like this?